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Gleeks in Training

August 27, 2010 By Marta Darby 8 Comments

Lucy is a senior in high school this year. We've been talking about college options for a while now. But our conversations began in earnest at the beginning of this year. She's already taken a few courses at the community college level, but what did she want to do? Where would she be interested in going? What schools best provided what she wanted?

The questions were coming fast and furiously.

Obviously, because we homeschool, we're very proactive about our kids' education. So together we began our research.

Lucy's high school experience to date has been through the Orange County Department of Education. The high school provides online classes and supportive classroom instruction as well as varied programs and clubs that meet on campus.

They have a yearbook (which she worked on last year) and they host a prom each year. There is a wonderful full drama program, which we've enjoyed immensely.

But now both Lucy and Jonathan began to want more.

As much as I love homeschooling and as much as I think people who have the temperament for it should do it, I am not "militant" about homeschooling.

Like I've said before, my highest goal has always been to raise decent human beings who have "learned how to learn." Homeschooling has been one of the richest, most rewarding experiences of my life. It's been the best educational choice for our family.

So, what to do with homeschooled kids who are curious and talented and ambitious?

In January both of them applied to the Orange County High School of the Arts. (OCHSA – pronounced "OH-SHA").  Think "Fame" but without the hoodlums. =D

Their best friends (and beloved neighbors) also put in their applications.

From January to March there was a lot of waiting and fretting and hand-wringing while we waited to hear back from the school about audition dates.

Beginning of March ALL FOUR OF THEM (!) received auditions for their respective conservatories.

Final decisions were made and letters of acceptance received in May. Again, ALL FOUR OF THEM got accepted. (A lot of happy dancing ensued, as you can imagine, but that's not important right now.)

Train riders
Lucy, Jon, Tessia & Tori waiting for the train on the first day of school.

I've homeschooled both Lucy and Jonathan for most of their formative school years. (Read about our homeschooling exploits here.) And while I was happy for them and so proud, I went through a weird sort of grieving.

I just realized that I had worked myself out of my own job. But, I think this was a very good thing. 😉

As of this week, Lucy is commencing her senior year of high school and
Jonathan is a freshman at the Orange County High School of the Arts. (<–I can't believe I just wrote that. I know. Shut up.)

Ochsa sign
They get to take the train to school each day, along with their best friends, and take creative classes. They are out-of-their-skin excited. (Eric and I are out-of-our-skin proud.)

Train girl

[Fun Fact: Famous OCHSA alum, Matthew Morrison plays Will Schuester on the hit tv show, Glee.]

Glee

So, I'm technically very happily "unemployed" now.

As we went through the new student orientation on the campus, I giddily kept hearing Irene Cara singing "Fame" in a loop in my head. All the kids were so happy to be there. They had worked hard for admission and were excited to start school.

To my everlasting delight, one of the veteran parents actually said to me, "You should come down at lunch sometime. It's like 'Fame' but without the drugs and the dancing on the cars."

What am I going to do with myself? Well, for now, I've suddenly become a "Lady who lunches." This pleases me.

As for Lucy and Jonathan Darby….all I'm saying is…. remember their names. 😉

Totem 

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  1. Amanda says

    August 27, 2010 at 4:09 pm

    So proud of them, this is going to be a great adventure!

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  2. elsie says

    August 27, 2010 at 9:27 pm

    our daughter graduated from OCHSA class of 06 – it was a wonderful experience, you’re kids are going to LOVE IT and so are you, having your children surrounded my other equally talented motivated kids is truly a gift!!

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  3. Ody Fabregas says

    August 28, 2010 at 7:06 am

    I’m so proud of you and encouraged with the good work you’ve done to instill loving to learn in them. But please, promise me that you won’t let Jonathan dance with those little green shorts like in the video. What was up with that?!!! LOL!!!Beso, Ody

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  4. Marta M. Darby says

    August 28, 2010 at 1:19 pm

    elsie,That’s so cool! They are still very wide-eyed and taking in the culture. The general report is that everyone is very friendly and happy to be there. That makes me happy.
    Besos,
    Marta

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  5. Marta M. Darby says

    August 28, 2010 at 1:21 pm

    Ody,Thanks, my friend. I’m excited for the new season we are entering.
    But I can’t see Jon in the little green shorts….unless, of course, he was going for the laugh. 😉

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  6. Marta M. Darby says

    August 28, 2010 at 1:21 pm

    Amanda,Adventure is the word. Ay, Dios mio!

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  7. Dariela says

    August 30, 2010 at 3:32 pm

    Pero que cool!! I want to go back in time and be one of them, LOL!

    Reply
  8. Marta M. Darby says

    August 31, 2010 at 9:49 am

    Dariela,I know! They come home and describe walking down the halls and hearing singing and tap dancing and pianos playing. I’ve never seen kids so happy to be in school!
    (I’m jealous. =D)

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