My mom will be 96 tomorrow and we had a birthday party for her this past Sunday at her home. There were the usual gifts of soaps and lotions and sweet-smelling stuff that she so loves. And she was delighted by the turnout and the sentiments expressed. She received lots of cards filled with love (and cash!). Because she's going to be ...
Cuban-American Life
I hope you enjoy my posts about my crazy and wonderful Cuban-American life.
No Regrets
I don't know how many posts I've started with...."I have my mom for the weekend," but I know there are many. My mom, Luz, will be 96 next week. She is in good health. She doesn't suffer from any disease other than old age. Her bones are healthy. She has a great appetite. She repeats herself occasionally (96!), but is ...
Kikita and the Ashes Go To Cuba
(I, Kikita, wrote this post.) If you're Cuban (or any other type of Latino) I'm sure you know about New Year's Eve Traditions. This year I decided that, since I was now 26, I would do things MY way. First, I did all of the classic traditions on Miami time. When it was midnight in Miami (9pm here) I was listening to a Cuban song, ...
Where are you now, Gaspar, Melchor, & Baltazar?
Back in the day, (that would be Cuba, 1961. After Castro, but before he canceled Christmas) my family, like most other Cubans (and Puerto Ricans and others of Hispanic descent) celebrated El Dia de Los Tres Reyes Magos on January 6th. The Day of the Three Kings. The evening of January 5th, we kids would get ourselves to bed early and look forward ...
The Best of MBFCF in 2009
Everywhere you hear about and see the flashbacks, the nostalgia, the reminiscing about the past year. Well, today I look back on this blogging year and some of my favorite posts. (Yes, I do have favorite posts and lots of others that make me wring my hands and wonder why I do this in the first place, but that's not important right ...
An Apple A Day
So apparently I was very, very good this year. Look what Santa brought me. ;-)Which means I had to haul my big, old Mac G5 tower to the Apple store to have them migrate all my stuff from the old Mac to the new Mac. This means that I am COMPUTER-LESS for the next few days while the migration happens. Which leaves me doing ridiculous things to pass ...
Let the Noche Buena Preparations Begin!
It's time to get ready for Noche Buena at the Darbys! I wish you could all come. It's going to be such a fabulous event! We've been up to our eyeballs in party preparations and I'm totally excited. This year we are hosting my big, fat, Cuban family. And our house is small. Freakishly small when I think of the logistics ...
He Danced With Me
The following post has been brought to you by the lovely and talented (and oh-so-humble) Kikita. About 10 years ago, when I was an adorable teenager who didn't remember much of the Spanish she'd spoken as a child, I saw the movie "Dance with Me." It was magical. There was a beautiful Puerto Rican guy (Chayanne) who was playing ...
Thankful – November 25
Today I am grateful... to my parents for having made the difficult decision to leave everything and everyone they knew behind in order for their children to have a better life in this incredible country. I'm a proud Cuban American. And trust me...my life is good. ...
Thankful – November 24
Today I am thankful for... my kitchen. Okay, so the truth is that I am constantly complaining about how small it is and how I don't have enough counter space and how I wish I had a sub-zero and sharper knives and....insert kitchen-complaint-of-the-day here. But honestly, it is in my impossibly small kitchen that I create meals and experiment ...









