I know I spend a lot of time on my computer, but every now and then I force myself to just stop and look around.I have a spot, too.It's in the corner of our bedroom.And there I am surrounded by things I love. The coverlet was crocheted by my great aunt in the 1920's.The brown wooden box on the high shelf was my Cuban grandmother's sewing box.The ...
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If you’re happy and you know it… write it on the wall.
I wanted him to know it. So I just wrote it on the wall - in red.That way he sees it first thing when he wakes up. And starts his day with the knowledge that he is loved... by a passionate Cuban woman. He doesn't seem to think it is one bit unusual that I would do this. It speaks volumes about our relationship, doesn't it? Either that it's ...
Refugees. Not immigrants.
My dad would have been 114 today. (2024) It is his birthday. Although we celebrated so many wonderful birthdays with him, I distinctly remember the year he turned 50. Because it is stamped on a passport. And forever in my memory. My Cuban Passport I know it is stamped the 12th. But the flight didn't take off from Havana until after midnight. ...
You’ve got to know when to hold ’em…
This is my mom, Luz. The grandkids call her Luza. We call her Mami.My sisters and I are planning a birthday celebration for her.She will be 93 in at the end of next week. Of course, I made invitations. ;-) Ever since I can remember and even before I came along, my family has played a card game called Continental. (it's a version of rummy, I ...
Desperate times call for desperate measures
I made pastelitos de guayaba. (guava pastries) I had to. It has been about 6 weeks (6 weeks, people!!) since we've had them.(since our road trip to Porto's in Glendale - see album to the left) And I would have to travel through quite a few area codes to get good ones.So I broke down and baked. And being a bit greedy for guava, I think I put too ...
“Que es guu-gol?”
I try to explain to my mom where Eric is and what he's doing there. "Que es guu-gol?" I don't have those words in Spanish. I can't describe any of it. Where he went. Why he's there. What he does.Search Engine? Internet Marketing? Links?umm.. nope. So I think I revert to "lugar grande," (big place) which not only sounds ...
They come by it honestly
It is now "after school," which is not a real concept here, because learning takes place all the time.But they have finished their assigned work for today and are free to do whatever they like. Lucy is working on making Valentine gifts for her friends. Yes, of course we could have purchased pre-printed Valentine's cards. But she is the ...
Amazing feats of engineering
I'm still finding blue feathers all over the house. And it's funny, but they make me think of my dad (who passed away 7 years ago). He was an engineer. And he used to tell me that engineering, like design, was just a matter of "problem-solving." I remember having this discussion with him when I was fresh out of design school and was hired ...
Why I love my phone – An ode to techno-sharing
I love my phone because it takes pictures. I love it because it videotapes.I love it because it allows me to instantly share my life. It is not the coolest, hippest, latest, thinnest or anything like that. But it does what I want it to do and I know how to work it. Enough said. Whenever we go someplace fun, we take a dorky "look where we ...
On the 7th day…
The kids finished up Saturday with an outstanding performance of "Seussical." Not just my kids, but the entire cast. They were worth all the hours we parents invested to let them have their moment in the spotlight. Speaking for myself, though, between designing programs and costumes and sewing and rehearsals, I spent way too much ...









