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Marta Darby

Missing the Mess

November 3, 2014 By Marta Darby 4 Comments

I was having a conversation with my mom (Luza, who, by the way, is 100 years old) and I was telling her how weird it was to only have 1 of my kids left at home.  Technically, even Jonathan is not here, because he's gone most of the time with school and auditions and driving to LA and rehearsals for the play he's in. So I find myself ...

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The Cuban Table – A Winner

October 31, 2014 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

Do you know what I love most about running a comment giveaway on my site? Well...your comments. Seriously, I love hearing about who the best cook in your house is and about your favorite foods to cook.  That, and I have some cool things to give away. I wish all of you could win because this is such a beautiful cookbook.Or as we say in ...

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The Cuban Table – A Giveaway

October 27, 2014 By Marta Darby 132 Comments

Last year I had the good fortune to participate in the  Cuban Cultural Center of New York's (Centro Cultural Cubano de Nueva York) 12th Annual Congress. You can read about that right here. It was there that I met another one of the chefs involved in the event. Ana Sofia Peláez is the author of the very delicious food blog, hungry ...

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Finding Her Place

October 21, 2014 By Marta Darby 5 Comments

Have you ever seen those photos that people take of their kids in the exact same spot or with the exact same toy over lots of years? It's a wonderful way to mark the passage of time and show the child's growth and how they've changed and grown. You know I'm a big fan of then and now photos. I think they make me much more ...

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Versailles Restaurant Cookbook – A Winner

October 18, 2014 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

Okay, people. Can I just tell you that I love when you talk about Cuban food? My take-away when I read all your comments was, "Wow. We Cubans are passionate in our love for our food."  That's really true, isn't it? Personally, there's something about the sublime blend of flavors in the almighty sofrito. The texture of ...

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The Versailles Restaurant Cookbook – A Giveaway

October 13, 2014 By Marta Darby 59 Comments

I can't, in good conscience, end Hispanic Heritage Month without talking about my love of Cuban food and sharing a wonderful new Cuban cookbook.  Obviously I'm a lover of all-things-Cuban. Particularly the food that so defines our culture. Platanos, black beans, tostones, lechón asado, picadillo, and of course, pastelitos de guayaba. ...

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Alexander and the…Very Bad Day

October 10, 2014 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

I have a confession to make, I was not prepared to like this movie. But let me tell you why... If you read my post from yesterday, you know that Jonathan worked as a featured background guy on the new Disney movie, Alexander and the Terrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. And if you did read all about it, you know that I'm going to be completely ...

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From the Set to the Red Carpet – NOT A Very Bad Day at All

October 9, 2014 By Marta Darby 3 Comments

Sit back. Get some popcorn. I have a wonderful "full circle" type story for you today. Jonathan worked on the film, Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day last summer as a featued background actor.  It started almost exactly a year ago when Jonathan decided he might like to give acting a shot. He signed up with a ...

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Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day Press Junket

October 8, 2014 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

I had the absolute pleasure to attend the press junket last week for the newest Disney release, Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. A day at the beautiful Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills? Yes, please. I had already seen (and immensely enjoyed) the film, so I was really looking forward to hearing what the actors had to ...

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Cuban Food Poster – Winners

October 3, 2014 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

I went through and read each and every one of your posts and I can't even tell you how happy you made me. So many of you I've had the pleasure to meet in person and I recall those times from reading your sweet comments.  Thank you so much for your loyalty and love. I chose 3 winners for the poster giveaway. In case you don't ...

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I love all things Cuban. I love to share stories, my family, food & recipes. I'm Marta. 💋🎉 @martadarby

I’m Cuban and I know things. 🇨🇺 Getting a house C I’m Cuban and I know things. 🇨🇺

Getting a house Cuban Clean® is not for the faint of heart. 

If you know, you KNOW. 

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎

Pa’lante. 🧺🧹🧽🫧

#cubanclean 

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I’ve been writing and over-sharing for 20 years no I’ve been writing and over-sharing for 20 years now. There should be cake! 🎂 🎉

https://www.mybigfatcubanfamily.com/2026/10/veinte-anos-no-es-nada/
There are things that will forever be stuck (and I There are things that will forever be stuck (and I mean that in the best possible way) in my Cuban brain and life. 🇨🇺❤️

Cachita is one of them. 
Please appreciate. 

Story link in bio

#virgendelacaridaddelcobre 
#itsacubanthing🇨🇺 
#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#cachita
Do you have something that gets on your last nerve Do you have something that gets on your last nerve every time? 

THIS is the hill I will die on. 🙄

Let me say it LOUDER for the people in the back. 
🗣️THERE IS NO X IN ESPRESSO.

This has been a PSA brought to you by @mybigfatcubanfamily 🇨🇺☕️

#cafecubano
#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#espresso
#America250 has us feeling all sorts of ways. 🥹 My #America250 has us feeling all sorts of ways. 🥹
My husband and I road tripped on Route 66 to the Grand Canyon and I absolutely had to over-share.
Because Cuban! 😉🇨🇺

Follow the link and appreciate some of what I believe there is to love about this beautiful country. 🫡🇺🇸⭐️

https://www.mybigfatcubanfamily.com/2026/06/getting-our-kicks/

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#mybigfatcubanfamily
Deseándole mucha felicidad a nuestro querido @will Deseándole mucha felicidad a nuestro querido @willychirino por sus cumpleaños! 🎂 

LA friends: Don’t miss Willy at the Downey theatre on May 8th and 9th, 2026! Come celebrate with us! 🎉

See you there! Ey-o Ey-o! 🕺🏼💃🏻

#willychirino
In these days of great uncertainty, it’s our cheri In these days of great uncertainty, it’s our cherished rituals that bring us comfort and provide great joy. 🇨🇺☕️ 

Also, I really need the jolt of caffeine💥 but that’s not important right now.😉 

@cafelallave 

#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️ #cafecubano #cafecito #cafelallave #itsacubanthing
🚨ATTENTION LOS ANGELES!! Get ready to meet all of 🚨ATTENTION LOS ANGELES!!

Get ready to meet all of the local like-minded Cubans who are ready to celebrate the death of communism on our beloved island! 🇨🇺 

We’ll be meeting at the Federal Building in Westwood. 
Saturday, March 28, 2026
From 10 am to 12 pm.

Bring your family and friends, your cazuelas y pitos, and of course ALL your Cubanity! 
Porque nuestro día YA LLEGÓ!!! 🇨🇺🇨🇺🇨🇺
Ahora si se está formando! Come be a part of the celebration of history being made! 🙏🏼🇨🇺🎉❤️
After 67 years, they’re finally listening to us and we deserve to be heard. 
Also, we deserve to PARTY!! 🎉 

In memory of our beloved Ziva Sahl, Fernando Marquez, Delia & Miguel Abascal and all our beloved dear ones who waited rather impatiently for this day. 🙏🏼🥰

Que viva Cuba Libre!! 🇨🇺❤️
I’ll see you there!!🇨🇺🥰

#patriayvida 
#mybigfatcubanfamily
#quesevayan
Happy St. Patrick’s Day, friends! ☘️ Today I’m O’C Happy St. Patrick’s Day, friends! ☘️
Today I’m O’Cuban. But my mom used to say I was “sinvergüenza.” 
It tracks. 🙄

Sláinte! 🍻😉

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
My family left Cuba in early 1961. My brother was My family left Cuba in early 1961.

My brother was on the first Pedro Pan flight in December of 1960. Happily, my family was only separated for a few very tense months. But we were part of the lucky few who managed to leave the country rather quickly.

Once reunited, my father vowed we’d never be separated again and so when my older sisters were to be married in California, he packed up the family and we never looked back.

We lived in Miami for the first 3 years of our exile, before my parents moved us across the country, and so we made our lives in Southern California.

As Cubans in California – “en el exilio del exilio” – we managed to find other Cuban families and connected with the familiar community of people who spoke our language and recognized our customs and our food.

I’ve told the story of my family’s exile many times using whatever words the Lord sees fit to give my feeble brain. 

Tonight, I’m a white haired 70 year old grandmother (call me Wella😉) living in Southern California with the family my husband and I have created. 

My parents passed away years ago. (And I unabashedly miss them daily💔).

What’s happening tonight (on the island that saw me born) is that the people have taken to the streets armed with nothing but pots and pans and have been banging them for 12 hours as of this writing, calling for “Libertad!” 

Who could believe we would actually see this day? 
Who can sleep when freedom is so close you can taste it? 

Praying for the brave people of Cuba. May liberation come quickly! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Also, I’m shining up my own pots and pans. It’s almost time.
There are just no words for this moment.
This is OUR Berlin Wall moment and the cracks are already stating to show.

#patriayvida 
#soscuba🇨🇺 
#ohthecubanity🇨🇺 
#cubalibre
Happy #305Day, Miami! ☕️🇨🇺 With espresso love fro Happy #305Day, Miami! ☕️🇨🇺

With espresso love from Southern California. ❤️

#mybigfatcubafamily
#cafelallave
#305day
Public Service Announcement: 🗣️ “We’re all brave u Public Service Announcement:
🗣️ “We’re all brave until we realize the cockroach has wings.” 
Stay strong, my friends. 💪🏼 
Happy Monday! 😉

#mybigfatcubanfamily
Ahora como nunca, como lo dice mi socio, el gran @ Ahora como nunca, como lo dice mi socio, el gran @willychirino …

“Nuestro día ya viene llegando.”

May God be with the Cuban people as the hour draws near.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
At this point, I feel like this is an important pu At this point, I feel like this is an important public service announcement. 
Write it down. ✍🏼 
🗣️Repeat it. 
Believe it. 👍🏼
Don’t come at me. ✋🏼
Ya tu sabes. 😘

#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
Happy International Coffee Day! ☕️ Make mine @ca Happy International
Coffee Day! ☕️ 

Make mine @cafelallave!

Also, I’m celebrating 19 Years in the Blogosphere today! Woohoo!!🥳 

Please join me over on my blog for all the *“RELAJO!” 🎉💃🏻

*(That’s Cuban for BIG FUN.) 

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Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Mart Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Marta? 🌎 👀 

I’ve been so super obviously absent from all my socials, let alone my blog itself. 
For a while there, I was overwhelmed by the once easy task of documenting my day-to-day life. 

Everywhere I looked, people moved on to high production video and I was hopelessly lost, so I put writing on the shelf and happily got caught up on all the seasons I’ve missed from the Great British Baking Show. 

But then, as I often say, “life is in session,” and my life was accumulating entire chapters before I could even type, “Oh, the Cubanity!” 

Which brings us to today. I’m starting to dip my toe back into writing online. Mostly, I miss the writing and telling about my extraordinarily ordinary life and the daily happenings at Casa de la Loma. 

So, tell me: Do you have any questions for me as I get back into the over-sharing of my days? 👀 

#mybigfatcubanfamily #belikemarta #callmewella #mbfcf
Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕️ #cafe Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕️

#cafecubano☕️ 
#cafelallave
Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️ #mybigfatcubanfamily Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️

#mybigfatcubanfamily
O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺 Always representing. 😉 #mybigfat O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺

Always representing. 😉 

#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#stpatricksday
Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️ Happy Sunday, my friends. 🎉 #o Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️

Happy Sunday, my friends. 🎉

#ohthecubanity🇨🇺 
#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️
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