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The Man Child

December 30, 2008 By Marta Darby 18 Comments

I have some well-chosen adjectives that describe my kids. 

What I happen to love about the following list of adjectives is that they were used by other people: Aunts, cousins, teachers, friends, grandparents, neighbors, tween-girls – to describe my son, Jonathan.

I know this because I have been "collecting" them for the past few months.  I take my parenting task very seriously so I listen carefully when someone describes them in a complimentary way.

1) Smart.
2) Funny.
3) Creative.
4) Talented.
5) Popular.
6) Original.
7) Resourceful.
8) Entertaining.
9)  Clever.
10) Quick-witted.
11) Adorable.
12) Inventive.
13) Crazy-making.

Okay, so number 13 was mine.  =D 
Carrie called him a muñecon…. does that count?

JON

My man-child is 13 years old today.

Half-Cuban, Half-Alien (I'm convinced) with Super Powers.  Brace yourself, World!

Happy Birthday to my Man-child, Jonathan.  =D

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  1. alysa says

    December 30, 2008 at 12:21 am

    happy birthday jonathon. you are marvelous. We love you!!!!!!!!Uncle George and Auntie Alysa

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  2. Chantel says

    December 30, 2008 at 5:50 am

    Happy Birthday, cool guy:)

    Reply
  3. ody from Miami Lakes says

    December 30, 2008 at 7:30 am

    Happy Birthday Jonathan!!!!! You are officially a teen. Have a wonderful day and remember, today is all about you!!!! You have 24 hours, use them carefully. Ready, set, go!!! 😉

    Reply
  4. Kikita says

    December 30, 2008 at 8:33 am

    Happy Birthday Jon!! I love you!(Oh, and the banker just told Connor & Grace that they have nothing in the world and offered to adopt them, but they refused) 😉

    Reply
  5. Melek says

    December 30, 2008 at 9:52 am

    Happy Birthday Jonathan!IMO, we can add to descriptions … it shows that you are loved!!!
    I Wish You Well 🙂 Melek
    “Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, a touch that never hurts.”~ Dickens

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  6. mario says

    December 30, 2008 at 10:25 am

    Wow! He’s sprouting the facial hair quite early, huh?Happy birthday to Jonathan!

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  7. Carrie_in_TN says

    December 30, 2008 at 11:08 am

    Feliz Cumpleanos, Jonathan, mi amigo munecon!Welcome to the Teen Years! They are the best and then it just keeps getting better and better and better!

    Reply
  8. Helen and Dressels says

    December 30, 2008 at 11:17 am

    (To the tune of Raiders of the Lost Ark) Here’s to Jonathan – he’s so great – It’s his birthday – We’ll all celebrate!Builds with Legos, defeats Cogs – he’s our favorite, our favorite, he’s really our favorite (fade out…)

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  9. Claudia says

    December 30, 2008 at 11:25 am

    Happy birthday Man-child! Your mom is so proud of you! Hope you have a great day!Ps my daughter is 13 but can’t date til she’s 40 but I’ll keep you in mind.

    Reply
  10. Gene Pensiero says

    December 30, 2008 at 11:26 am

    Hey buddy!13… Great number… Totally ‘lucky.’ You’ve entered a whole new realm. Enjoy!

    Reply
  11. The Fairy Godmother says

    December 30, 2008 at 2:21 pm

    One obvious word is not on the list! HANDSOME! Happy Birthday Jon! That picture of you makes me SMILE!!!!Love you!

    Reply
  12. Lucy says

    December 30, 2008 at 2:53 pm

    Welcome to my world, my little teenage brother.

    Reply
  13. jana says

    December 30, 2008 at 4:24 pm

    Happy Birthday Jonathan!!!

    Reply
  14. John says

    December 30, 2008 at 4:40 pm

    Happy Birthday from long lost family ‘n stuff!John in Chucktown, SC

    Reply
  15. Kristen Benson says

    December 31, 2008 at 7:00 am

    Happy Birthday, Jonathan! I know, a day late, but but better late than never :o)XOXO
    All the Bensons

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  16. Michael Verdes says

    December 31, 2008 at 10:52 am

    Happy Birthday Jonathan,There will come a day when you must take a trip alone to Miami. On that trip I will teach you how to use all 13 items on the list to get any girl you want at any time.
    Tell me when you are ready

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  17. Mailyn says

    December 31, 2008 at 11:24 am

    Happy Birthday Child-Man!Marta, you are right, he is really cute and he’ll be such a nice young man!

    Reply
  18. Susan says

    January 1, 2009 at 6:14 am

    You forgot one description: Tax Deduction. Impeccable timing.:-)

    Reply

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