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Afro-Cuban after all . . .

November 13, 2007 By Marta Darby 6 Comments

I thought I knew my mom inside and out, but she is still able to surprise and amaze me. 

(Hi everyone, it’s me, Amy)

Let me give you some background . . .

One of my very dear and very beautiful friends, Sheila (Not the blond. That’s my other friend, Ashli, but that’s not important right now), works for her mother’s non-profit organization Outreach to Africa. 

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Anyway, through Sheila I met Christian.

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Ok, I know he can look . . . well . . . rather "hoodlum-esque," but don’t judge the book just yet . . .

He’s in a band.  The band, Milele (that’s Swahili for "forever ") raises money for orphans with AIDS in Africa. 

Anyway, he and Sheila invited me (and anyone I wanted to bring) to "come listen to another group visiting from Africa."   Ummm . . . OF COURSE!  They didn’t have to tell me all the wonderful things THAT group was doing because they knew I would go and see for myself.

And for some reason, I wanted Mom to come too.  Most of the time, I don’t bring Mom to my multi-cultural nonsense, because it is usually just that . . . nonsense.  But here were two amazing people doing amazing things for their country, and I took a shot and invited Mom.

I didn’t think she’d say yes.  But she did.  And I was in shock, but excited.

We got there early.  She met and charmed everyone the way she always does . . .

When the concert started they asked everyone to get up. Mom got up.
When they said march, she marched.
When they said stomp, she stomped.
Everything they had the audience do, she did. 

SHE EVEN JUMPED WHEN THEY SAID JUMP!

All I kept thinking was, "Who is this woman?"

I kept telling her, "Mom, I’m glad you came, but you don’t have to dance around . . . it’s ok."

It wasn’t until afterwards when she said,"Yes I did!  YOU of all people should understand that when you hear that kind of music you can’t sit still!"

Well, yeah, but . . . I didn’t think SHE felt that way . . .

And she talked about how connected she felt with Africans, "because we Cubans have the same roots."

Well, yeah, but . . . I didn’t think SHE felt that way . . .

She was so touched and so enthusiastic about the concert, she stopped and bought Milele’s newest cd and even a keychain for Lucy. "We have to support them!"

Well, yeah, but . . . WOW.  I guess I don’t know my Mom as well as I thought . . .

But I am happy to be able to share my inner Afro-Cuban with her . . .

The best moment though, was when she pretended to know Swahili and jumped right in speaking gibberish, "Angongo burda blonga!!"

Blond

And they said, "You are right.  Your daughter is a beautiful blond."   😉

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  1. kristen Benson says

    November 13, 2007 at 7:13 am

    Great post Amy!

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  2. Marta says

    November 13, 2007 at 9:26 am

    Mimi-I like the part where I’m still able to surprise and amaze you. “Angongo burda blonga!!”
    Great post.
    Mom

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  3. Susan says

    November 13, 2007 at 2:03 pm

    One of my favorite salsa tunes is “Aisha” by a band called Africando. There is a strong outpost of salsa musicians in West Africa. Like you say, roots…..

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  4. Kristen Benson says

    November 13, 2007 at 3:37 pm

    Hi Amy,WOW–I just finished reading their website…AMAZING!!!
    I had glanced at it earleir today but just now I got to really read it…it was quite moving…thanks for sharing!

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  5. Amy says

    November 13, 2007 at 3:55 pm

    Kristen-Did you check out both Milele and Outreach to Africa?
    They really are amazing! I’m feel lucky to call them my friends.
    Susan-
    I’ve heard of Africando . . . loving that connection. 🙂
    -Amy

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  6. kristen Benson says

    November 13, 2007 at 6:52 pm

    Yes, checked both out…I love to hear what people are doing to make this world a better place :o)

    Reply

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