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Marta Darby

Our Favorite Orange County Portrait Photographer and Friend

November 20, 2011 By Marta Darby 2 Comments

I'm starting to think that I'm the last of a dying breed who waits until it's actually December (and usually half-way through!) to start decorating my home for Christmas. I explain that in great detail here. But that doesn't mean I don't shop or do all the other preparations that make Christmas meaningful to me. It takes a ...

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Teaching Generosity?

November 19, 2011 By Marta Darby 2 Comments

As you know if you've been reading this blog for a while, we have homeschooled our kids. I often say that one of the reasons we have chosen to homeschool is that we're not as concerned about their academics as we are concerned about their character. We have attempted to teach them kindness, thoughtfulness, hospitality, and generosity - ...

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Operation Pedro Pan. It’s been 50 years and the pain is still present.

November 17, 2011 By Marta Darby Leave a Comment

When I mention to someone that I've just met that I'm Cuban, the first thing they do is recall the only other Cuban person they've ever met. Then next thing that happens is that they ask me if I know them.  Most of the time I don't, but being Cuban, we do manage to find connections in the oddest places. See this story. Just ...

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It goes both ways.

November 15, 2011 By Marta Darby 8 Comments

The weekend is over and it's Sunday night.  My sisters and I have hired a lovely Mexican gal to live in with my 97 year old mom during the week and she takes weekends off at which time we take turns hosting Luza from Friday to Sunday. Now that she's 97 it's getting more complicated to pack her up and take her for a weekend, but ...

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Giving back to our Veterans – Cooking With the Troops

November 11, 2011 By Marta Darby

In July of this year, my family and I were privileged to take part in a wonderful event in San Antonio, Texas where we got to provide a great, big, home-cooked, Cuban feast to wounded veterans at the Warrior Family Support Center at Brooke Army Medical Center.When I share the story of how wonderful it was to be able to serve our ...

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Classic.

November 7, 2011 By Marta Darby 16 Comments

My dad and most of the Verdés side of the family grew up playing multiple instruments. He loved, loved, loved any kind of music, but was an afficionado of classical and played both the piano and the cello. As much as I love my salsa music, oldies, and classic rock, I love listening to classical when I'm working on an art project. I think it ...

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Cuando Sali de Cuba – Luis Felipe’s Story

November 2, 2011 By Marta Darby 3 Comments

Marta here. I started this series, Cuando Sali de Cuba, Stories of Courage and Hope in order to celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month: Cuban-Style. I asked my readers to send me their stories about how their families left Cuba and how they ended up here in the U.S. As the stories began pouring in, I realized that this needed to be an ongoing series. ...

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No “El Tri-co-tri” for you!

October 31, 2011 By Marta Darby 1 Comment

My mom calls. "Van a ir al tri-co-tri?" She's asking if the kids are going out and Trick or Treating. El Tri-co-tri. You have to say it phonetically, TREE-COH-TREE. It's what Trick or Treat sounds like with a Cuban accent. The "El" is just to make it grammatically correct.  El Tri-co-tri. Noun. (Or verb?) The act of dressing up and begging for ...

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The “Sanweech Plancha” Winner

October 30, 2011 By Marta Darby 4 Comments

You know what I love about my readers? That you come in all shapes and sizes and have extraordinary taste in sandwiches. I confess that I'm surprised that a lot of you don't have your own sandwich "plancha." How do you grill, not just a Classic Cuban Sandwich, but what about a pan con lechón? Or a pan con bistec? (I may ...

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The Sandwich Generation – A Rant, a Classic Cuban Sandwich Recipe, and a Giveaway

October 27, 2011 By Marta Darby 43 Comments

The term, "sandwich generation" is used to describe those adults who are caring for aging parents while still actively parenting their kids.  While I'm grateful that my sisters and I share the load of caring for my 97 year old mom, Luza, I still feel the push-pull of having teenagers in the house and helping my mom with her ...

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I love all things Cuban. I love to share stories, my family, food & recipes. I'm Marta. 💋🎉 @martadarby

I’m Cuban and I know things. 🇨🇺 Getting a house C I’m Cuban and I know things. 🇨🇺

Getting a house Cuban Clean® is not for the faint of heart. 

If you know, you KNOW. 

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎

Pa’lante. 🧺🧹🧽🫧

#cubanclean 

https://mdarby.substack.com/p/8-rules-to-getting-your-house-cuban?r=ep04e&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true
I’ve been writing and over-sharing for 20 years no I’ve been writing and over-sharing for 20 years now. There should be cake! 🎂 🎉

https://www.mybigfatcubanfamily.com/2026/10/veinte-anos-no-es-nada/
There are things that will forever be stuck (and I There are things that will forever be stuck (and I mean that in the best possible way) in my Cuban brain and life. 🇨🇺❤️

Cachita is one of them. 
Please appreciate. 

Story link in bio

#virgendelacaridaddelcobre 
#itsacubanthing🇨🇺 
#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#cachita
Do you have something that gets on your last nerve Do you have something that gets on your last nerve every time? 

THIS is the hill I will die on. 🙄

Let me say it LOUDER for the people in the back. 
🗣️THERE IS NO X IN ESPRESSO.

This has been a PSA brought to you by @mybigfatcubanfamily 🇨🇺☕️

#cafecubano
#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#espresso
#America250 has us feeling all sorts of ways. 🥹 My #America250 has us feeling all sorts of ways. 🥹
My husband and I road tripped on Route 66 to the Grand Canyon and I absolutely had to over-share.
Because Cuban! 😉🇨🇺

Follow the link and appreciate some of what I believe there is to love about this beautiful country. 🫡🇺🇸⭐️

https://www.mybigfatcubanfamily.com/2026/06/getting-our-kicks/

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#mybigfatcubanfamily
Deseándole mucha felicidad a nuestro querido @will Deseándole mucha felicidad a nuestro querido @willychirino por sus cumpleaños! 🎂 

LA friends: Don’t miss Willy at the Downey theatre on May 8th and 9th, 2026! Come celebrate with us! 🎉

See you there! Ey-o Ey-o! 🕺🏼💃🏻

#willychirino
In these days of great uncertainty, it’s our cheri In these days of great uncertainty, it’s our cherished rituals that bring us comfort and provide great joy. 🇨🇺☕️ 

Also, I really need the jolt of caffeine💥 but that’s not important right now.😉 

@cafelallave 

#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️ #cafecubano #cafecito #cafelallave #itsacubanthing
🚨ATTENTION LOS ANGELES!! Get ready to meet all of 🚨ATTENTION LOS ANGELES!!

Get ready to meet all of the local like-minded Cubans who are ready to celebrate the death of communism on our beloved island! 🇨🇺 

We’ll be meeting at the Federal Building in Westwood. 
Saturday, March 28, 2026
From 10 am to 12 pm.

Bring your family and friends, your cazuelas y pitos, and of course ALL your Cubanity! 
Porque nuestro día YA LLEGÓ!!! 🇨🇺🇨🇺🇨🇺
Ahora si se está formando! Come be a part of the celebration of history being made! 🙏🏼🇨🇺🎉❤️
After 67 years, they’re finally listening to us and we deserve to be heard. 
Also, we deserve to PARTY!! 🎉 

In memory of our beloved Ziva Sahl, Fernando Marquez, Delia & Miguel Abascal and all our beloved dear ones who waited rather impatiently for this day. 🙏🏼🥰

Que viva Cuba Libre!! 🇨🇺❤️
I’ll see you there!!🇨🇺🥰

#patriayvida 
#mybigfatcubanfamily
#quesevayan
Happy St. Patrick’s Day, friends! ☘️ Today I’m O’C Happy St. Patrick’s Day, friends! ☘️
Today I’m O’Cuban. But my mom used to say I was “sinvergüenza.” 
It tracks. 🙄

Sláinte! 🍻😉

#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
My family left Cuba in early 1961. My brother was My family left Cuba in early 1961.

My brother was on the first Pedro Pan flight in December of 1960. Happily, my family was only separated for a few very tense months. But we were part of the lucky few who managed to leave the country rather quickly.

Once reunited, my father vowed we’d never be separated again and so when my older sisters were to be married in California, he packed up the family and we never looked back.

We lived in Miami for the first 3 years of our exile, before my parents moved us across the country, and so we made our lives in Southern California.

As Cubans in California – “en el exilio del exilio” – we managed to find other Cuban families and connected with the familiar community of people who spoke our language and recognized our customs and our food.

I’ve told the story of my family’s exile many times using whatever words the Lord sees fit to give my feeble brain. 

Tonight, I’m a white haired 70 year old grandmother (call me Wella😉) living in Southern California with the family my husband and I have created. 

My parents passed away years ago. (And I unabashedly miss them daily💔).

What’s happening tonight (on the island that saw me born) is that the people have taken to the streets armed with nothing but pots and pans and have been banging them for 12 hours as of this writing, calling for “Libertad!” 

Who could believe we would actually see this day? 
Who can sleep when freedom is so close you can taste it? 

Praying for the brave people of Cuba. May liberation come quickly! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Also, I’m shining up my own pots and pans. It’s almost time.
There are just no words for this moment.
This is OUR Berlin Wall moment and the cracks are already stating to show.

#patriayvida 
#soscuba🇨🇺 
#ohthecubanity🇨🇺 
#cubalibre
Happy #305Day, Miami! ☕️🇨🇺 With espresso love fro Happy #305Day, Miami! ☕️🇨🇺

With espresso love from Southern California. ❤️

#mybigfatcubafamily
#cafelallave
#305day
Public Service Announcement: 🗣️ “We’re all brave u Public Service Announcement:
🗣️ “We’re all brave until we realize the cockroach has wings.” 
Stay strong, my friends. 💪🏼 
Happy Monday! 😉

#mybigfatcubanfamily
Ahora como nunca, como lo dice mi socio, el gran @ Ahora como nunca, como lo dice mi socio, el gran @willychirino …

“Nuestro día ya viene llegando.”

May God be with the Cuban people as the hour draws near.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
At this point, I feel like this is an important pu At this point, I feel like this is an important public service announcement. 
Write it down. ✍🏼 
🗣️Repeat it. 
Believe it. 👍🏼
Don’t come at me. ✋🏼
Ya tu sabes. 😘

#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
Happy International Coffee Day! ☕️ Make mine @ca Happy International
Coffee Day! ☕️ 

Make mine @cafelallave!

Also, I’m celebrating 19 Years in the Blogosphere today! Woohoo!!🥳 

Please join me over on my blog for all the *“RELAJO!” 🎉💃🏻

*(That’s Cuban for BIG FUN.) 

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Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Mart Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Marta? 🌎 👀 

I’ve been so super obviously absent from all my socials, let alone my blog itself. 
For a while there, I was overwhelmed by the once easy task of documenting my day-to-day life. 

Everywhere I looked, people moved on to high production video and I was hopelessly lost, so I put writing on the shelf and happily got caught up on all the seasons I’ve missed from the Great British Baking Show. 

But then, as I often say, “life is in session,” and my life was accumulating entire chapters before I could even type, “Oh, the Cubanity!” 

Which brings us to today. I’m starting to dip my toe back into writing online. Mostly, I miss the writing and telling about my extraordinarily ordinary life and the daily happenings at Casa de la Loma. 

So, tell me: Do you have any questions for me as I get back into the over-sharing of my days? 👀 

#mybigfatcubanfamily #belikemarta #callmewella #mbfcf
Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕️ #cafe Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕️

#cafecubano☕️ 
#cafelallave
Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️ #mybigfatcubanfamily Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️

#mybigfatcubanfamily
O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺 Always representing. 😉 #mybigfat O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺

Always representing. 😉 

#mybigfatcubanfamily 
#stpatricksday
Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️ Happy Sunday, my friends. 🎉 #o Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️

Happy Sunday, my friends. 🎉

#ohthecubanity🇨🇺 
#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️
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