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Taking care of business

November 3, 2006 By Marta Darby 6 Comments

I have a confession to make:  I am a terrible businesswoman.

Let me explain. 
I have my online store called Cuba to Go!  It’s pretty straightforward.  I have come up with some fun designs for shirts and bags and things.  My products are all about showing off your Cuban heritage.  My husband is an Internet marketing guy and he is my own personal in-house (literally) Techno-Geek. 

I’m pretty computer savvy myself, besides being an artist. I am pretty good about getting the orders from the in-box all the way to the mail-box.  I am very competent.

But here’s where my business skills break down.  I have customers who contact me with questions, and then we start talking.  There it is.  Right there. I get hooked by people’s stories. And every one of them has a story.  I went out of my way to get the "Guajiro" sweatshirt to Robert’s dad across the country for his birthday with the note:  "Here you go, Papi. I love you. Robert." (got choked up by that one) 

The friends of the proud new Cuban dad sent a gift of a onesie to their friend’s newborn "Cubanito."  (does he look like the dad?)  There is my new friend, A.L. from Glendale who bought his Cuban wife a shirt in every color and style in our catalog.  We talked for over an hour about her Cuban heritage, how proud he was of his children, how we homeschool and…. oh… yes…. about his order.  Eric & I are making plans to meet them at Porto’s in Glendale one day very soon.

How unprofessional is this??  I care more about the people than their business. I exchange emails with them. I want to hear their stories.  I met my friend Lee when she wrote me a lovely email with the thought that we could be friends.  You should see the pictures of her grandchildren! They are gorgeous! (Hope you have a great time in Boca Raton, Lee & Steve!)

So if you find you like my products and I see your order in my inbox, rest assured that I will wonder about you. I will laugh at your clever email address. I will wonder how Cuban-Americans ended up in that part of Texas, or what nationality your husband or wife is. Chances are I might even pray for God to bless you.

This is not an apology. I’m just giving you a head’s up.  I’m not really a very good business woman. I want Life to Life contact.  I must connect with people. It is in my DNA. I’m Cuban!
Mi casa es su casa.  Which makes professional detachment impossible for me.

But my stuff is cool.  I know you’re going to like it. Even if I am a big sentimental dork!

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Consider yourselves warned.

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  1. Kristen says

    November 3, 2006 at 6:56 am

    Hey Marti,Your post this morning made me cry…honestly…I am so glad we are “real life” friends but wow, if I only knew you in Cyber Space I would still feel blessed and most likely buy your stuff even though I’m not even Cuban just because…
    May God bless YOU my friend :o)

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  2. Amy says

    November 3, 2006 at 8:48 am

    It’s just so fun to connect with other Cubans! I remember Robert and his “Guajiro” father. You worked so hard and you were so worried it wouldn’t get there, but it did and he loved it. Yep, you do suck as a business woman. 😉

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  3. Marc Masferrer says

    November 3, 2006 at 9:07 am

    I have yet to order any of your products, but I will, if only because of what you just wrote. I think what you described, makes you a great businesswoman. Keep up the good work.

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  4. keb says

    January 19, 2007 at 7:55 pm

    I’m w/ marc, it’s the personal digressions that make you a superior businesswoman.

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  5. Michelle Martinez says

    February 3, 2007 at 4:09 pm

    Hi, I came upon your blog when doing a search for ideas on scrapbooking my husbands heritage as a Cuban man..coming to this country as a very young little boy, he’s now 40 yrs old. and on our 4th battle with non-hodgkin’s lymphoma..i really enjoyed reading some of your blog, some very touching and lots to chuckle about..i myself i am half cuban/italian, but I was raised by my cuban mother, not much trace of the italian part except enjoyment of the food every now and then..I wanted to say thank you for having such a blog..your spirit lefts mine..I hope to find the right stuff as ideas and information for his book..Sincerely,
    Michelle Martinez
    of NJ

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  6. Cervantes Cabreado says

    March 19, 2007 at 3:15 am

    Es una buena idea: a la gente le gusta cambiar de vestuario cada temporada, a la gente le gusta airear sus orígenes y el merchadaising (cual juego de palabras) vende.Lo lamentable es que, haciendo tanta apología de tu origen étnico y cultural, parece que tengas el español olvidado.
    Igual es una extraña forma de vengarse de Castro y dar a entender que Chavez no es santo de tu devoción -para todos los gustos hay-, pero es un poco triste que, mostrando tanto orgullo como digo por tus orígenes-, este blog no sea al menos bilingüe y no tengas una opción para visualizar tu tienda online en español.
    Me recuerda demasiado al tema “Jaula de Oro” de Los Tigres del Norte y da un poco de penita, qué le vamos a hacer.

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