It's one of those things that has to be done. And, for the most part, it's out of our control.
Unless something catastrophic happens, we are all going to age. Some of us will look better doing it. Some of us will just handle it better.
Some things about aging are liberating for me. I seriously don't have to worry anymore about how I look in a mini skirt. That ship, as they say, has sailed.
But I have gotten much more comfortable in my own skin.
I took this self portrait last week. No makeup. No concealer. No lipstick (!). No photoshop. This is me in all my natural glory.
I was taking the photo to document for a friend how far along my curls have come since I started growing them out last year. I was surprised to find, after I took the photo, that I thought I looked pretty much like myself and it pleased me. (I also like how the summer sun has given me these natural highlights, but that's not important right now.)
I just wrote an article for MamasLatinas.com for their ¿Que Mas? section. It's titled 5 Steps to Aging Gracefully. I started off by writing, "I'm 58 years old. There. I said it."
They used a stock photo of a beautiful, happy, laughing woman to illustrate the article. That's okay. That's exactly how I feel.
But this is really me. I'm the one with the really contented look on her face. I'm 58 years old. And it's a good place to be.
(Please go visit MamasLatinas and read the article, then come back and tell me what you think.)
Very inspiring! Thank you for the beautiful words…
Beautiful…simply beautiful!! 🙂
Beautiful 🙂 I am trying to age gracefully—I will be 50 in September. I am more comfortable in my skin than I have ever been but I wish it held up better LOLLove your article !
Always inspiring! You look great and are wonderful! xoxo, Zelde
Cubanita Bella!
You are gorgeous! Thanks for being brave to share.
Love to read your blog, you inspire me. Beautiful picture of you.
You look great!
You look wonderful Marta, its great to see a wonderful lady so full of life and happy with herself; very inspiring! I love your hair!
Thank you, Suzy. *blushes*
I’m still a work in progress, Mercy! xo
I appreciate you saying so, Zelde!
Gracias, Lily! 😉
I’m working so hard to be brave. Thanks for saying so. xo
I am glad. I want to be inspirational. Even if it means going without makeup! 😉
Gracias, Diana. xo
Thanks, Maria! I feel pretty good, too.
Thank you for your kind words, Elisa. I am getting more and more used to my hair. =D
Marty!Not only gracefully, but beautiful too!!! I love how the sun has kissed your hair with highlights :))
I wish you well 🙂 Melek
“The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul, to retreat from the belief of pain or pleasure in the body into the unchanging calm and glorious freedom of spiritual harmony.” ~ MBE
Marta, estas divina!!