• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
My Big Fat Cuban Family

My Big Fat Cuban Family

Cuban recipes, family, heritage, and culture.

  • Meet Marta
    • Media Mentions
  • Lifestyle
    • Cuban-American Life
    • My Big, Fat, Cuban Family
  • Entertainment
    • Disney
    • Marvel
    • Television
    • Concerts
    • Books
    • Theatre
  • Celebrate
    • Halloween
    • Thanksgiving
    • Cuban Christmas
    • Mother’s Day
    • Movie Nights
    • Summer Nights
  • Recipes
    • Cuban Recipes With Pictures
    • Family Favorites
    • My Cook Book
  • Shop
    • Cuban Foods Poster
    • Cuban T-Shirts
    • Costa Rican Foods Poster
    • Honduran Foods Poster
    • Puerto Rican Foods Poster
    • Salvadoran Foods Poster
    • Scottish Foods Poster
    • Customize Your Own
    • Cuban Goodies In Your Mailbox
  • Contact
    • Advertise
  • Archives

Now it’s time for… “Big Thoughts with Dr. Seuss.”

November 21, 2006 By Marta Darby 7 Comments

Pb207923We have words on the walls.
Not every wall. But in lots of places in our home. 

It started off as a sort of rebellious thing when we bought our house: "I own this house and I will write on the walls if I want to!"

But it has become a way to express our uniqueness as a family.  I think everyone should have words on their walls. Some are stenciled. Some are just rub ons.

I just finished this one yesterday for the family room in Helen’s home (my niece).
I had to give Ben (17 months) my phone to get him to just stand there for perspective – because the size of the Scooby-Doo and Clifford just didn’t work.

I just love this quote she chose. It took me about 5 hours total to stencil it. (with a bit of help from Amy, too.)

The stenciling itself kind of puts me in a zen-like state.  I found myself meditating on the quote while brushing the paint into the stencil.

I came to the conclusion (oh! The thinks you can think!) that I actually believe this for my own life.   Obviously Helen believes it, too.  And I agree.  She lives her life genuinely.

Come to think of it…. I think it just might be a very Cuban trait. Or maybe it’s our own family thing.  We assume you’re going to like us right off the bat. (What’s NOT to like?")

It has never even occurred to me to NOT be who I am or say what I think. 

Yes, Cubanita. THIS is the definition of freedom.

[NOTE: If I have enabled anyone in any way with this post and you end up with writing on your walls…. you must send proof! =D]

You might also like:

Confronting Weakness Teenagers in the 70’s. Your thoughts? “The more that you read the more things you will know.” – Dr. Seuss Marking time

Filed Under: My Big, Fat, Cuban Family

Previous Post: « Bird Girls with Maracas
Next Post: So alike… »

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Maria says

    November 21, 2006 at 12:51 am

    Great idea putting this quote on a wall. It serves as a constant reminder to everyone in the home to live life genuinely. I do agree it’s a Cuban trait, and sadly not one that comes easily to others. I thought everyone was like us for a loooong time … but we are especially unique in this regard. And even though I was raised as an American from age 4 and embrace that fully, I find I’m now grateful for this attribute most of all. Thank you for reminding me that saying what you think and being honest and genuine are all good things! I found inspiration here and am planning my mural quote as I write this.

    Reply
  2. Cuban by Proxy says

    November 21, 2006 at 8:34 am

    I love this picture. Ben is such a cute and fiesty little guy.

    Reply
  3. Pam Pensiero says

    November 21, 2006 at 8:37 am

    I have two things on my walls because of you! There is something so personal about it. When people come in if they see it, they look a little puzzled, but I just laugh! Thanks for all the great ideas!

    Reply
  4. Kristen says

    November 21, 2006 at 5:14 pm

    As a non-Cuban I have to dissent somewhat…I have LOVED wall words for a long time and even thought about doing it before I met you (although you DID ignite the fire once again in me)
    For me finally owning my own house again got me just wanting COLOR on my walls (I was SO SICK of the white walls, white carpet, white tile of the renting world!)
    That is why my house now has walls that boast red, browns, blues, greens, yellows and purples…(I don’t think you have been over since Dani’s walls became periwinkle and the upstairs bath was painted lavendar :o) I still aspire to do something with the master bedroom…one day I will AND I will paint something along the lines of happily ever after in there…I have a vision :o) …

    Reply
  5. Amy says

    November 22, 2006 at 8:42 am

    Kristen I totally can see where you’re coming from, but I think you missed the point . . . (she said with a smile and a big hug) no one said wall words were just a Cuban thing. What we Cubans assume is a unique trait of ours is that it never occurs to us that you wouldn’t like us for the loud, happy people we are. Wall words were just an example of a kooky thing that comes out of that same happy place. In my book, you have those same qualities as us Cubans 😉 So keep “being who you are” and “saying what you feel” you honorary Cuban you! :-p

    Reply
  6. Pam Pensiero says

    November 22, 2006 at 9:45 am

    Here are some words for you this Thanksgiving!”Mangiare per vivere e non vivere per mangiare”
    which means…..”Eat to live and not live to eat”
    Have a blessed Thanksgiving Marta! Manga!
    Love you,
    Pam
    P.S. I had a hit from Miami on my site…..maybe directed from yours?

    Reply
  7. keb says

    January 19, 2007 at 7:20 pm

    Oh my word! that ADORABLOE pic of the baby ben beneath the wall words shd be a Life magazine cover!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

EXPERIENCE CASA DE LA LOMA

Casa de la Loma on Airbnb

My Cuban T-Shirt Designs

“Cuban T-Shirts

Subscribe to MBFCF Newsletter!

Never miss a post! Sign up with your email address to receive recipes, news and updates right in your inbox!

Cuban Foods Poster

“Cuba

Cuban Coffee Poster

“Cuba

Cuban Desserts Poster

“Cuba poster - Cuban desserts subway art print

Most Recent Posts

  • 19 Stories I’m Excited to Tell
    October 1, 2025
  • Santayana loves Celia
    August 29, 2024
  • Post Solar Eclipse – Café La Llave Giveaway
    April 16, 2024
  • REAL Snow: A Darby Family Adventure
    March 19, 2024
  • Dulce De Leche Cheesecake with Maria Cookie Crust
    January 29, 2024

Cuban Recipes Cookbook

Cuban recipes with pictures cookbook from My Big Fat Cuban Family

Follow Me on Instagram

mybigfatcubanfamily

I love all things Cuban. I love to share stories, my family, food & recipes. I'm Marta. 💋🎉 @martadarby
Marta Darby Designs:
https://etsy.me/3ZWbWIS

Happy International Coffee Day! ☕️Make mine Happy International
Coffee Day! ☕️Make mine @cafelallave!Also, I’m celebrating 19 Years in the Blogosphere today! Woohoo!!🥳Please join me over on my blog for all the *“RELAJO!” 🎉💃🏻*(That’s Cuban for BIG FUN.)https://bit.ly/4gUtFqv
Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Mart Where in the world is My Big Fat Cuban Family Marta? 🌎 👀I’ve been so super obviously absent from all my socials, let alone my blog itself.
For a while there, I was overwhelmed by the once easy task of documenting my day-to-day life.Everywhere I looked, people moved on to high production video and I was hopelessly lost, so I put writing on the shelf and happily got caught up on all the seasons I’ve missed from the Great British Baking Show.But then, as I often say, “life is in session,” and my life was accumulating entire chapters before I could even type, “Oh, the Cubanity!”Which brings us to today. I’m starting to dip my toe back into writing online. Mostly, I miss the writing and telling about my extraordinarily ordinary life and the daily happenings at Casa de la Loma.So, tell me: Do you have any questions for me as I get back into the over-sharing of my days? 👀#mybigfatcubanfamily #belikemarta #callmewella #mbfcf
Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕ Starting my day as God intended. Amen. 🇨🇺☕️#cafecubano☕️
#cafelallave
Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️#mybigfatcubanf Oh, the Cubanity!! 🇨🇺❤️#mybigfatcubanfamily
O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺Always represent O’ Hi! 👋🏼 ☘️🇨🇺Always representing. 😉#mybigfatcubanfamily
#stpatricksday
Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️Happy Sunday, my fri Believe it. ☕️🥰❤️Happy Sunday, my friends. 🎉#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️
I’m super crazy in love with my Christmas tree.🥰
And @gloriaestefan singing about it makes it that much more beautiful. Am I right? 🤩I’m over here waiting (rather impatiently) for Noche Buena to arrive. ⏱️
Who’s with me? 👀☺️🎄🙌🏼❤️#arbolitodenavidad
#feliznavidad
#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
I have a gift for you today on the blog. 🎁 Thes I have a gift for you today on the blog. 🎁 These Classic Cuban Crema de Vie printable labels designed by the lovely and talented @lucyruthdarby // I also share the recipe for our amazing Cuban egg nog. // 🇨🇺❤️ Merry Christmas, my friends.🎄 #itsacubanthing
bit.ly/2QJV2Ka
Best way to get from here to Noche Buena. Bring on Best way to get from here to Noche Buena. Bring on the @cafelallave
💚🗝️☕️🎄💃🏻🎶Feliz Navidad!!🎶🪅#cafelallave
#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️
Felicidades, @anaqooks !!! I can’t wait to dig i Felicidades, @anaqooks !!!
I can’t wait to dig in! So proud of you, my friend. 😘❤️🥰
Bacon Guava Cream Cheese Bites. You should totally Bacon Guava Cream Cheese Bites. You should totally make these for Thanksgiving. Also, practice taking bows and saying, “it was nothing.” 🇨🇺🎉🏆 Here’s the link -  bit.ly/GuavaBites #thefoodofmypeople #guavabites
A big a Thank You shoutout to @santayanajwlrs in M A big a Thank You shoutout to @santayanajwlrs in Miami for this gorgeous Celia Cruz quarter which they made into a FINE piece of jewelry. 🤩🇨🇺💃🏻🎶
I’ll be wearing it with great pride.
“Abre que voy! Cuida’o con Los callos!” 🎶
AZUCAR!!!#santayanajewelers
#celiacruzquarter
#mybigfatcubanfamily
Our favorite sound…🙌🏼☕️💚🗝️“Mas cafecito, por favor.” ☕️❤️#cafelallave☕️
#thedrinkofmypeople🇨🇺☕️
#mybigfatcubanfamily
I want to recommend this beautiful story to you. 📕
1) Because the author @titaramirezwriter writes with such an appreciation for Cubanity. 🇨🇺🙌🏼
2) Also, is this the BEST quintessentially Cuban book title ever?? yes. Yes it is. 🇨🇺❤️🌴Felicidades, Tita on such a delicious read. ❤️🏆#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
#dimelocantando
#tellittomesinging
I’m excited and proud to share that my shop, Mar I’m excited and proud to share that my shop, Marta Darby Designs on Etsy is back open for business! 🎉
I have food posters from many countries available in multiple colors. ⭐️
Choose from digital uploads, printed posters, or framed posters. (Link in bio)
Que pachanga! 💃🏻
Come take a look and shop around. You’re bound some to find something you love.❤️https://etsy.me/3ZWbWIS#cubanfoodposter
#martadarbydesigns
Croquetas > Pumpkin Spice
This is the truth. Don’t @ me. 🇨🇺
.
.
.
.
.#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
#mybigfatcubanfamily
#croquetas
#pumpkinspice
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I’m pretty easy to catch.
🤭#pastelitodeguayaba
#belikemarta 🖖🏼😎
AHORA SI!! 🚨 My friends at @santayanajwlrs le p AHORA SI!! 🚨
My friends at @santayanajwlrs le pusieron la tapa al pomo!
Have you seen the new Celia Cruz quarters?? 🇨🇺💰
Well, Santayana has designed this gorgeous piece of jewelry. Seriously. 🤩
I’ll tell you all about it over on my blog. 🗣️ Porque I have all the chisme on this gorgeous piece. ❤️I know. Im a little crazy about it because we Cuban Queens have to stick together. 😉Link in profile! ☝🏼 ¡AZÚCAR! 💃🏻https://www.mybigfatcubanfamily.com/2024/08/santayana-loves-celia/
My good friends at @albisacandles are celebrating My good friends at @albisacandles are celebrating that 5 Years ago they introduced the amazing Cuban Bread Candle into the world.🌎
Those of us who have difficulty finding Cuban Bread are so grateful for this very Cuban scent. 🇨🇺🥖
Congratulations, my friends! 🎉Try it. I promise you’ll never be the same. 🇨🇺🥖❤️Oh, the Cubanity! 🤯#ohthecubanity🇨🇺
#belikemarta. 🖖🏼😎
#cubanbread
#cubanbreadcandle
#albisacandles
This was my breakfast. ☕️
And my lunch. ☕️
And my afternoon snack. ☕️
Because CUBAN. 🇨🇺☕️Who’s with me? 🙋🏼‍♀️
Gracias, @cafelallave#cafelallave
#ohthecubanity
#cafecubano
Follow on Instagram

Follow Marta On Social

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • RSS
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

FEATURED POSTS

  • 19 Stories I’m Excited to Tell
    October 1, 2025
  • Dulce De Leche Cheesecake with Maria Cookie Crust
    January 29, 2024
  • My Big Fat Cuban Cooking Playlist
    November 21, 2016
  • Bacon Guava Cream Cheese Bites RecipeBacon Guava Cream Cheese Bites Recipe
    October 3, 2016
  • Chicken Soup Recipe - Cuban-styleChicken Soup Recipe: Cuban-style
    July 27, 2016

Blog Archives

Recommended Services

Orange County Private Investigator
Enterprise SEO

Footer

Meet Marta

Marta Verdes Darby is a Cuban-American food blogger in South Orange County.

Connect

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • RSS
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Sign Up For My Newsletter

November 2006
MTWTFSS
 12345
6789101112
13141516171819
20212223242526
27282930 
« Oct   Dec »

Copyright © 2025 my big fat cuban family